Survival against Mankind
'Service of others' now means, service in help of the survival against Mankind.
"The capacity to trust. A sense of security versus insecurity. Knowing what’s real and what’s not real,” Dr. Gourguechon, Psychiatrist and Past President of the American Psychoanalytic Association, says:
“Your mother helps you identify your feelings and develop a cognitive structure so you don’t have to act on them immediately. And I think it’s fair to say that the capacity for empathy develops through your maternal relationship.”
Is it possible to create this feeling for people who have been crippled in the family unit. There are advantages to being crippled for survival, at some point however, they become a hinderance to experience life - genuine connection. Securing the physical as comfortable - $ - and spending Self in a state of self defense is ingrained regardless of our family set up. We are programmed to self defense. Evidence of this shows up as self absorption. Hence the path towards Enlightenment shining in the direction of service to others. 'Service of others' now means, service in help of the survival against Mankind.
Our mirror image from birth, we are bathed in expectations beyond tribal circle, a compulsion in linear time. Competition and self value intertwined, imprinted in our pshyci with a grading system in written cognition. The value in the language of feeling subdued by hierarchy. This hierarchy achieved through monopolising on one's brother.
Our tribes voice strong, devalued by the strangle of the 'haves and have nots' in a fictitious realm created by survival against ourselves.